Valentine’s Day Reminder: Demonstrate Unconditional Love

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My favorite Valentine’s Day gift is always from my Mom.  My first year away from home (freshman in college), my mom sent me a pair of socks as a Valentine’s gift.  She continued to do this every year for years.  Some years she would send chocolate candy.  One year, she sent my children socks and me a starbucks giftcard.  To me, these gifts represent the great love of all – unconditional love.  

Valentine’s Day is about celebrating unconditional love. Webster’s Dictionary defines unconditional as “not conditional or limited, absolute, unqualified.”  One of the definitions of love is “a strong affection for another rising out of kinship or personal ties.”

To me, unconditional love is:  

  • Loving without set conditions
  • Knowing the real someone, and loving them anyways
  • loving without expecting anything in return
  • more of a behavior than a feeling
  • from the true self
  • the greatest gift you can give anyone

I hope this is a wonderful reminder for all of us moms this Valentine’s Day to practice unconditional love.  I can’t wait to see what my Mom sends me this year which makes me feel loved! 

Here are a few gift ideas for your children if you are inspired by my own mother! (all on Amazon Prime to get here by Valentine’s Day). 

Other (free) ways to show unconditional love:

  • Take your child on a date (including getting dressed up and making it special)
  • Share with your child(ten) the things you love about them
  • Write them a heartfelt, encouraging card for them
  • Bake them a special treat for Valentine’s Day
  • Have a snack prepared for them in the shape of a heart
  • Do a special Valentine’s Day craft with them (like this or this!)
  • Go on a walk and look for heart-shaped items in nature or make your own with sticks and rocks
  • Bake items and bring them to your local Firestation or Nursing home
  • Give your child some pretty flowers or a plant

We’d love to hear other ways you celebrate Valentine’s Day with your kids with gifts or traditions.

Also, several local bookstores also have Valentine’s Day displays in their children’s section! 

Hooray for Books! in Old Town Alexandria

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Adrienne Barge
Adrienne was born and raised in Houston, Texas. Even though she is a proud 6th generation Texan, she is thrilled to call Alexandria, Virginia home for the last 10 years. Adrienne enjoys exercising the left part of her brain working for the Federal government, and the right part of her brain on her blog Brunching With Kids.  She is a mom to a smart & beautiful 9-year-old daughter, and kind & rugged 5-year-old son.  Her husband works at a local hospital in Virginia. The entire family loves exploring all aspects of this amazing area, especially anything outside and/or along the Potomac River.  Major likes: a good cup of coffee, fire pit, fried okra, and outdoor happy hours.  Major dislikes: Laziness, a messy house, and mansplaining.